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It isn\u2019t your imagination.<\/p>\n
We women don\u2019t always tell you exactly what we want.<\/p>\n
Even though we won\u2019t always spell out exactly what we want from you, as sometimes we don\u2019t even realize what we want at first, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to stay in the dark.<\/p>\n
There\u2019s a linear, logical way to shed light on what women want when it comes to approaching, flirting, and getting a woman\u2019s number.<\/p>\n
Today, I\u2019m going to share with you how to essentially read a woman\u2019s mind in these crucial areas so you can know what she wants, without her actually saying it to you.<\/p>\n
There are four things you should never expect a woman to tell you. Might she tell you? Sure, but if you expect it, you\u2019re shorting her and yourself a potentially great connection.<\/p>\n
Even if she wants it, she\u2019s not likely to go over and tell you.<\/p>\n
Does she want to be approached by everyone? No, only by men she feels at least comfortable around, if not attracted to. As long as you\u2019re chill, that\u2019s you! Even if she\u2019s not attracted to you, and even if she has a boyfriend, she\u2019ll still be flattered.<\/p>\n
Here\u2019s how to approach her and make sure it lands the right way.<\/strong><\/p>\n Go with an attitude of, \u201cI\u2019m just going to say \u2018hi.\u2019 Whatever happens is great. If she responds negatively, then either (A) she\u2019s not as nice as she looks, (B) she\u2019s having a bad night, or (C) I came off wrong because I\u2019m still learning how to approach well.\u201d<\/p>\n That\u2019s all. Those are the three options. Notice that not one of those is, \u201cOh, I guess I\u2019m inherently unattractive!\u201d<\/p>\n None of those three options is deeply personal. The first is about her, the second is situational, and the third is about skill-level, which is always improvable.<\/p>\n A great example of this kind of approach is when one client of mine was out with friends at a club recently and saw a group of girls dancing. He noticed one he felt especially attracted to and said to his friend, \u201cI\u2019m going to go talk to her.\u201d<\/p>\n His friend said, \u201cGirls in groups don\u2019t like that. You\u2019ll be bothering her.\u201d<\/p>\n What? No. Not a helpful modus operandi. Happily, my client wasn\u2019t fazed. He remembered what we worked on, and he said to his friend, \u201cWell, I\u2019ll go over there and find out!\u201d<\/p>\n Total badass.<\/p>\n He approached her, and she was into him. She broke away from her friend group, and they had an amazing night together. She was even in town for a little while, and they ended up seeing each other several times!<\/p>\n Instead, you can do what my awesome client did:<\/p>\n Before you walk out of the house, remember why you\u2019re attractive.<\/strong> Feel good about yourself by reflecting on times women were warm and responsive to you. Remember why women are attracted to you, the compliments they\u2019ve given you.<\/p>\n Dress well, and look good. <\/strong>The better you can look before you walk out the door, the more attractive you look and feel. Wear a crisp collared shirt that fits you well. Be clean, well-groomed, and smell good. These are very basic things that women notice a LOT, so pay close attention there.<\/p>\n Warm up. <\/strong>Be generally social before talking to a woman you\u2019re attracted to. Talk to other people like your friends, the bartender, and maybe a dude at the bar. This way, when you do approach, you\u2019re warmed up already.<\/p>\n See who you naturally feel drawn to. <\/strong>When you get to your venue, notice who you feel attracted to. Notice that your attraction is not just sexual towards physical looks alone. Your attraction to her is also to her vibe, as her personality naturally shows through her appearance in what she\u2019s wearing and her facial expression. Be present to that. This helps you know that you are not being creepy.<\/p>\n Position yourself closer to her in the room.<\/strong> By positioning yourself closer to her before approaching, you\u2019re not making a direct beeline. Because you\u2019re already nearby and you\u2019ve been talking with other folks, it looks and feels more natural for both of you.<\/p>\n As you approach, be open.<\/strong> Be open and curious to see how things unfold. This is a consistent point my most successful clients follow. Don\u2019t expect anything; just be open to whatever you find as the dynamic begins. You are there to see what happens. You can think of yourself as a detective who\u2019s gathering clues about her and how she feels.<\/p>\n Say something relevant. <\/strong>If it\u2019s a dancing venue, you could ask her to dance. If not, you could say something about the environment, asking her how she knows the host, mentioning something about what she\u2019s drinking. Start talking like you know her, something short and laid back.<\/p>\n If you want to be more intense, you can compliment her. As long as you steer clear of complimenting her boobs or ass directly, it will come across well.<\/p>\n To know this, you must read her well. Ask yourself based on her body language, \u201cDoes she want me to stay or go? For that matter, do I like her? Do I want to stay or go?\u201d<\/p>\n Watch her body language. <\/strong>Read her body language during her conversation. Her body will tell you whether she is open to you or not. Is her torso opening towards you or closed off from you? Is she relaxed or tense? Is she breathing deeply or holding her breath?<\/p>\n The former in all these cases are signs she wants more of you, and the latter are signs she\u2019s uncomfortable and not into it.<\/p>\n Whatever feedback you get isn\u2019t personal. It\u2019s just information on how well you\u2019ve read her, how developed you are in that particular skill at this point in time.<\/p>\n Respond accordingly. <\/strong>If she\u2019s not into talking with you after a few minutes, you can say pleasantly, \u201cHey, it was great talking to you. Enjoy your night!\u201d<\/p>\n If it wasn\u2019t a long conversation at all, then you can tell her in a laid-back way, \u201cEnjoy your night!\u201d<\/p>\n I\u2019ve had clients who had women so surprised that they were so chill about it, that the women changed their minds when my clients got up to leave and said, \u201cWait, don\u2019t go!\u201d<\/p>\n If you are having a great connection, incorporating flirtatious touch, and there is no mention of a boyfriend, she wants you to get her number. She won\u2019t say, \u201cAsk for my number now.\u201d<\/p>\n She wants you to get it. Here\u2019s how:<\/p>\n Plant a seed of seeing her again. <\/strong>While you\u2019re talking, mention seeing her again. If you\u2019re talking about a venue already, you can say, \u201cIt would be fun to take you there!\u201d<\/p>\n Planting a seed warms her up to the idea.<\/p>\n Get her number. <\/strong>When you get her number, pull out your phone as you\u2019re in conversation with her, and say, \u201cHey, let me get your number.\u201d<\/p>\n Then open your phone to the text screen and hand her the phone.<\/p>\n By doing that, you\u2019re taking care of it. If she doesn\u2019t want to give you her number, she won\u2019t. If you don\u2019t offer, though, you\u2019ll never know.<\/p>\n When you\u2019re aware of these things that women want but won\u2019t tell you, everything gets easier.<\/p>\n Instead of feeling presumptuous, you know that as long as you\u2019re getting warm vibes and responsiveness from her, you\u2019re actually doing exactly what she likes.<\/p>\n It\u2019s a win-win, and it eliminates drama of wondering whether you should do this or that, going back and forth in your mind.<\/p>\n Knowing what to do and what to look for means you will finally be able to connect with women in a way we want to be connected with, and you will be handsomely rewarded for it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" It isn\u2019t your imagination. We women don\u2019t always tell you exactly what we want. Even though we won\u2019t always spell out exactly what we want from you, as sometimes we don\u2019t even realize what we want at first, that doesn\u2019t mean you have to stay in the dark. There\u2019s a linear, logical way to shed […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":317,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-316","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-featured"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/readymadewebsiteshop.com\/WomenFashionBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/316","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/readymadewebsiteshop.com\/WomenFashionBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/readymadewebsiteshop.com\/WomenFashionBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/readymadewebsiteshop.com\/WomenFashionBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/readymadewebsiteshop.com\/WomenFashionBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=316"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/readymadewebsiteshop.com\/WomenFashionBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/316\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":318,"href":"https:\/\/readymadewebsiteshop.com\/WomenFashionBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/316\/revisions\/318"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/readymadewebsiteshop.com\/WomenFashionBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/317"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/readymadewebsiteshop.com\/WomenFashionBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=316"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/readymadewebsiteshop.com\/WomenFashionBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=316"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/readymadewebsiteshop.com\/WomenFashionBlog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=316"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Don\u2019t expect a woman to tell you HOW to approach.<\/h3>\n
Don\u2019t expect a woman to tell you, \u201cI like you being here,\u201d or, \u201cI want you to leave.\u201d<\/h3>\n
Don\u2019t expect a woman to say, \u201cGet my number now.\u201d<\/h3>\n